Fingerbanging a random dude is a-ok!

18:30
Sarah X
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4QBRgyitFs
NSFL

18:34
XXX
seen and killed me

18:35
Sarah X
Yes my b8 worked
I have a question for you

18:35
XXX
?

18:36
Sarah X
Do you actually think that [redacted]'s friend is a slut because she got fingered
Btw he left the call after you disappeared to talk to her

18:36
XXX
yeah
that's pretty fucking slutty

18:37
Sarah X
If getting fingered is "slutty" then what am I)
I?*

18:37
XXX
slutty
to be completely honest

18:40
Sarah X
I'm gonna tell ur mum

18:40
XXX
that's fie
fine

18:43
Sarah X
Just know that you're pretty much the only person on the planet to think that getting fingered is "pretty fucking slutty"

18:44
XXX
thanks for making me feel like an outcast i guess?

18:44
Sarah X
Same to you pal

18:45
Sarah X
You gotta be okay with it at some point or else you will hate yourself forever

18:45
XXX
that idea makes me feel like i might just not pursue a relationship [refering to her making it seem like all girls are sluts and I'm supposed to be fine with it]

18:45
Sarah X
And you might have made me feel like an outcast but I'm not literally one. I am confident in myself, I know who I am.

18:45
XXX
why the hell would i want to at this point ayway

18:45
Sarah X
You have to figure that out

18:46
Sarah X
Although I wouldn't blame anyone for not going after you due to your blatant ignorance

18:46
XXX
i'm ignorant because i think being fingered is a sexually forward thing?
jesus fucking christ

18:46
Sarah X
No
It's so much more than that but I don't have the patience to explain it to you

18:47
XXX
"You're wrong, but i don't want to expain it to you"
explain*

18:47
Sarah X
Pardon me for not wanting to go over my thoughts and beliefs and their connections with global history for the past 400 years and future 400 with you.

18:48
XXX
how the fuck is it that complicated
i don't think you realize something
the girl didn't get fingered by her boyfriend
it was some guy at a party

18:48
Sarah X
So?

18:48
XXX
that is super fucking slutty
the debate isn't if being slutty was okay or not
it was w[h]ether if being fingered by a guy you just fucking met was slutty or not

18:49
Sarah X
Yeah
I agree
Thats what we were arguing about

18:51
XXX
why the hell are we still argueing about it?

18:51
Sarah X
Because I can't stand your ignorance

18:52
XXX
My ignorance on what?
You lied to me on something I deem important; is that the source of my ignorance
?

18:53
Sarah X
lol
No

18:54
XXX
Then what is it?

18:54
Sarah X
The world may never know the source of your ignorance.

18:54
XXX
Are you trying to get a rise out of me?
Is that what this is about?

18:54
Sarah X
No

18:55
XXX
You're not telling me anything, yet you claim I'm ignorant
Please
Enlighten me on how I'm ignorant

18:56
Sarah X
I don't feel the need to. You're book smart. I'm sure you have reasonable capabilities to figure it out on your own.

18:56
XXX
I'm at an absolute loss of understanding.
However, I will say this
I should stop listening to your opinions on sex as you seem to be giving false information to justify your own promiscuity and lust
What you are doing is absolutely not normal, especially for someone your age

18:58
Sarah X
You should do whatever you feel comfortable with.

18:58
XXX
The consequences have almost been ridiculous at times [refering to her having not just one, but two pregnancy scares, as well as an STD scare]

18:58
Sarah X
Alright
Thats just like your opinion, man.

18:59
XXX
Ignorance is bliss.

18:59
Sarah X
lol is it? Let me know
You don't know why I am the way that I am

18:59
XXX
Why do you on occasion suddenly turn into an absolute asshole?

19:00
Sarah X
Why are you always one?

19:00
XXX
If you thought I was, why do you persist on talking to me?

19:00
Sarah X
I should say the same to you

19:00
XXX
You're not always an asshole
Sometimes you seem to give good advice
I say "seem" now, because you straight up lied to me
I've never lied when giving advice to you
That would be completely counter-productive

19:02
Sarah X
I changed my opinion which happened to be based on an estimation/guess of my social observations.

19:02
XXX
You said you "lied to make me feel better"
That's not an opinion change.

19:03
Sarah X
I can't defend myself there. Sluts are stupid, dirty, worthless failures.

19:04
XXX
I'm not saying they are
I'm saying I would never date one

19:04
Sarah X
Whatever
https://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2010/04/04/what-is-slut-shaming/
This is really all I have to sayo

19:09
XXX
You really think this will change my standards?
i think having sex just on a whim is fucking retarded
No matter how you spin it

19:10
Sarah X
I don't want it to change your standards. You can date or marry whoever you want. Virgin or not as you see fit.

19:10
XXX
Then what is the whole point of sending me that link?

19:15
Sarah X
I just want you to acknowledge that not everyone has those standards. People have different values. None of them are inherently wrong values to have. Thats why you should treat people with respect, even if you might not agree with them. All of us are guilty of mistakes. No one is perfect all the time. I just want you to know that offending people by calling them a demeaning word (any of them) isn't a wise decision. I hate to be cliche, but treat others how they would want to be treated. AKA respect. If you don't want to be called "a filthy fucking breeder" or other slurs because of your beliefs or other people who share the same values as you, maybe people on the opposite side of the spectrum feel the same. Just be respectful. I know you disagree with what I enjoy, and thats perfectly okay, just don't insult me. Be respectful please.

19:17
XXX
you were just insulting me

19:17
Sarah X
Yeah I realize that
I should have stepped away and calmed down
I'm sorry. I know that might not mean much to you.